My husband is becoming my wife.

On May 30, 2020, in the midst of a global pandemic, civil unrest, and our own recovery from a curious case of mono my husband and I contracted, my husband “came out” to me. I was cutting potatoes. I had a knife in my hand. I was stressed, overworked, and in no mood.

This blog is about what happened, what is happening, and what will happen as my spouse transitions and I stop hiding behind heteronormative relationships.